Everything is figure-out-able

Posted by on May 31, 2011 in Uncategorized | 5 comments

Math and girls. Image: Woodleywonderworks

When I was 15, I couldn’t do maths.  It was utter gobbledygook.  I sat there every lesson and wrote notes diligently, but nothing connected, however hard I seemed to try.

The moment of truth was my mock ‘O’ grade, the January before we took the real ones.  I knew that I’d done badly, but when my teacher handed back my paper, I couldn’t believe how badly.  I’d not so much failed as crashed.

My teacher (a kindly man with a bald head, a walrus moustache and a degree in maths) told me that some people simply couldn’t do maths, and I was clearly one of them.

I was devastated, angry with myself and my stupid mathless head. And I was angry that he thought I couldn’t do it.

Anyway, shortly after I went to a bookshop and I came across a slim book in white with blue lettering. It was called “How To Pass ‘O’ Grade Maths.”

I felt the blood thundering in my ears, and I bought it.

I spent weeks working my way through that damned book. It took ages to make sense, but I just plugged away week after week.  Things gradually got clearer. It never got easy.

Flip forward to the results: I got an A in my ‘O’ grade maths, and no one could believe it.  I’d like to say it started a lifelong love affair with maths, but it would be truer to say that it started a lifelong love affair with self-help books.  Indeed, I can chart my life through those books: maths, Italian, statistics, management, gardening, baby care, genetics, HTML. Dog training.

Here’s my solid belief: I can learn to do absolutely anything, as long as someone wrote a good book about it.

Of course, some things are much harder to learn than others. Management is harder than Italian, it turns out.  Theory is a lot easier than practice.  Maths is still hard, but I have rock solid proof that if I work hard and I get great explanations (and I’m motivated enough!), I can make sense of pretty much anything.

My next ‘learnable thing’ is putting more of my business online.

Over the next couple of weeks, I will be reworking this particular outpost.  I want to inspire people to create a great online presence for themselves or their organisations.  There will be new services and a rather wonderful DIY kit, coming out next week, which will show you how to make over your own website.  I hope you’ll join me for the trip.

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  • http://journeyingwoman.com Ann

    I have been that soldier/student/self-help book junkie.
    Looking forward to your offerings.

  • http://twitter.com/alisonmacleod Ali Mac

    Thanks Ann.  I find a lot of people are quite critical of ‘learning from books’ but seriously, I’d have learned very little otherwise.  Of course there is always ‘learning from reality TV’ but that’s a bit more hit and miss.

  • http://curiouslypersistent.wordpress.com curiouslypersistent

    A person after my own heart. I find I learn far more from textbooks and reference books than I do from courses and training sessions (in much quicker time). The only thing is forcing myself to make the time to consume them

  • http://twitter.com/alisoncs Alison Clayton-Smith

    Looking good. Glad to see you’re making it happen. Will need to get moving to catch up!

    Books are great, so long as you do something with them rather than just think about what you read. Same as courses, or any way of learning. If you want to change something, you need to do something. But then sometimes, learning is about expanding the mind, having fun, etc rather than actually doing anything differently.

  • http://twitter.com/alisonmacleod Ali Mac

    Thanks! I’ve just set up my mailing list, too.

    I love books but I think they’re less good when you need real transformation.